Sunday, March 25, 2007

Just reminiscing about the India trip...as I mentioned previously, it was a class trip designed to help us explore ways of alleviating poverty, which generally exists at the bottom of the society pyramid.

Anyway, someone came up with the inspired idea of forming a pyramid, in honor of our 'project pyramid' class when we visited the Buddha statue In India.

Here's the video clip:

Part 1:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qLSMQn1DBzI

Part 2:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GbU1fS3xSVY

This other clip is totally hilarious!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z9WSQgg6jFc

You'd never guess the guy in that clip is a soon to be NY Investment Banker and the gal is a soon to be McKinsey consultant!

Friday, March 23, 2007

Global food festival

The Global Business Club hosted the 'Global Food Festival' yesterday at school.

It was soooo cool. We had about ten countries/ regions represented. The premise is that groups of students get together based on the country/ region of origin and prepare a table of delicious foods, representative of part of the world.

(Hwee, Blair and I)
Don't ask me how, but I was somehow recruited into the Asian table! (Mind you, this wasn't even the SE Asian group, but the Chinese/ Thai/ Korean contingent!) Oh well, I had a blast! Unfortunately, I can't claim to have contributed to the mouth-watering dishes at our table (though I did stir the peanuts). My value added was in making the decorations- I think I missed my calling! Had soooo much fun doing those decorations, you'd swear I'm not a soon-to-graduate MBA student.

Unfortunately we didn't win (did I mention it was a competition? The prize is not so much the measly $300, but the unlimited bragging rights!), but according to my Chinese friend Hwee, it's not about winning (of course Blair and I strenuously disagreed. We were however, persuaded to Hwee's way of thinking when we didn't win).

The Taiwanese crew were the winners of the night. We're trying to find out who exactly they bribed!
(Me after I was able to confiscate some Mardi-gras beads from the New Orleans table, and with a red - bindi on my forehead from the Indian table...so cosmopolitan :) )


(Chris just wanted to wear a skirt..eh ... kilt. [Chris doesn't realize he's black...we decided not to burst his bubble])
(Nat looking like this Kafia, traditional dress in Dubai, was made for him! He's was really getting into the spirit of this outfit and trying to recruit his harem of women! (JK)
Nat was responsible for organizing our trip to India and our activities while we were there. He did an amazing job!)
(What happens at Owen, stays in Owen :) )












India Tea



One of the most interesting things about visiting another country/ region is the diverse array of cuisine. Somethings you come back dreaming about (I had mouth-watering dreams about curry chicken the first day after arriving in the US from my visit to India), other things are just too adventurous for your pallet (beetle leaves...don't even ask me what this is!).

One of the things to really appeal to me was the India way of making tea and the Arabian way of drinking coffee. In addition to the regular tea bag or brewed coffee, both drinks require the use of Eastern spices. The end result....delicious!

While in Dubai we had an amazing Desert Safari tour. In addition to the sand boarding, dune bashing, belly dancer and henna tattoos, we were introduced to Arabian coffee. The coffee is brewed with Cinnamon, Saffron and Cardamom. Very different, very exotic, and to me, very appealing.


(Cinnamon )

Indian tea is a bit different- very milky and very sweet, but also extremely spicy. This too incorporates Cardamom and Saffron.

So, one of the first things I did upon arriving in the States was to purchase my very own collection of spices and concoct my own version of India Tea...call it Ria's Brew or something.


(Saffron)


Ria's Brew: One bag of green tea (wonderful if you get your hands on green mint tea), 1/2 stick of cinnamon, couple grains of cardamom and cloves, some ginger and garlic (fresh). Brew this is some hot water, add milk and sugar to taste.



Can someone say 'Ummmmmmmmmmm....'.




(Cardamom)

Saturday, March 17, 2007

at this moment

I just took a break from studying and wondered outside for some fresh air. As I stood in the sunshine, huddling in my jacket against the somewhat chilly wind- it suddenly dawned on me:

At this moment I was meant to be here.
I was meant to be feel the sunshine on my face, to feel the wind on my skin.
At this moment, I was meant to be and not six feet under.

At this moment, I was meant to be in school, in Nashville, in the USA. I was meant to live in this time and place and understand all the associated dynamics.

Because I was meant to be here at this time, because I meant for this- this moment is mine. I own it (maybe as much as it owns me?).

What I do with this moment is my choice- I can choose to succeed, to pursue my dreams, to walk in my destiny, to grab satisfaction. That choice is mine- in this moment...this moment that spans my life.

Thursday, March 15, 2007

This too shall pass

They say the only constant is change...that could be either a scary thought or a liberating thought.

Some things, we're very comfortable with, and for those things we resist, even defy change.

Then there are situations we find ourselves in that hurt us. When we face those circumstances, we're consumed by it- by the emotion of it. All that exists at that time is our pain. Our present daunts us, we either forget our past or regret it, and our future pales.

At these times, we forget that 'this too shall pass'. Yes, we do need too live in the present, even this present. But remember that the present is dynamic, moving, ever-changing. To be optimistic even in the midst of it (whatever it is), and wait on that wind of change to revive us.

Wednesday, March 14, 2007

open the eyes of my heart...

Thought for today, courtesy Corey Cleek: Work is a form of worship.

The Theology of work:
Work existed before the fall of man, it is not a result of the fall.
Work is a gift! It is a form of worship. It is a way for us to glorify God.
When we work we are co-creators with God.

Isn't it nice to see things in a different way? To embrace a new way of thinking that expands your horizons and broadens your boundaries?

We hear so much about the prayer of Jabez, "Jabez called on the God of Israel, saying, 'Oh that Thou would bless me indeed, and enlarge my coast [territory], and that Thine hand might be with me, and that Thou would keep me from evil, that it may not grieve me!' And God granted him that which he requested." 1 Chron 4:10

I've always thought about this in physical, materialistic terms.
But while not wrong, I now think it is incomplete- God can broaden our horizons, and extend our boundaries - by opening our minds and broadening our understanding, by allowing us to see, understand and know things we didn't before. That is a true freedom, a true expansion of ourselves, and a true growth.

It's the transformation we should strive for- 'be ye transformed (into the image of Christ), by the renewing of our minds (understanding, knowledge, perspective)'. [Words in parentheses are mine for explanation.]
Change is never easy, and this transformation is probably one of the more extenuous processes we will ever go through- because 'our ways are not as His ways, and our thoughts are not as His thoughts'.

called to the market place

So the Christian Business Fellowship session with Corey Cleek just finished. I actually turned out to be very good. I'm glad I came- I believe that everything happens for a purpose, that my steps are ordered, and I know I it was purpose that brought me here- at this particular point in my life.

I mentioned in my last entry that Corey is a MBA from Duke and is very heavy in the business world- he's into the Internet/ tech environment and has worked at such giants as Amazon and EBay.

Some of the things he said really hit home to me. He spoke about knowing that he was called to the market place. But to reach this realization, he had to really struggle. Traditionally, ministry was not necessarily perceived as being outside the church. But he knew he had a passion for business- that he was 'wired' that way. I totally understand that- from my earliest memories, I remember being fascinated by business- the running and organization and creation of it. Most kids pretend to be a fire-man or a police man- I pretended to be a business woman, with my brief case filled with papers for me to sign, sitting in my office...to ensure my brothers were able to play with me (they wanted to be the police men and fire men), we would pretend that they had to report to me, and I'd direct to what needed to be done. It's been a natural progression in the business field since then.

Corey spoke about finding the intersection of your passion for business and your passion for ministry. About searching the scriptures to see what was said about business, stewardship and work. I know these things, but I'm really glad I hear them today. I've been struggling with this- my parents might know abit about this, because I was very indecisive for a while about accepting my job offer in Investment Banking- Was this my calling? Was it my purpose? Was this what God wanted for me at this time? Sure, I wanted it. But did God want it for me?

But, I'm of the position that my steps are ultimately ordered by God- He's lead me up to this point, I know He has opened doors in my life for me to walk through, and I know He has closed certain others- I know this to be true. So I trust Him here- and so far, things that seem impossible have been happening. My desire to come to B-school was so strong, my desire to work in IB was so strong- but it was at that point where I actually gave it back up to God, where I said, yes Lord, I want this, but not my will- but yours be done - it was at that point that I got my breakthrough and God delivered to me my desire. I know this to be true.

So I may not have completely found my life's intersection of business and ministry- but I'm definitely moving in that direction.

Selah

What would people say if I tell them I'm a Jesus freak...

I'm sitting in the Christian Business Fellowship Club meeting in my MBA school...sad to say it's my first visit. I know, I know it's sad. My dad is a pastor, my brother is the president of the students for his theological school...and this is my first visit to the CBF club.

It's so easy to get caught up in the MBA life. It's a vortex that sucks you in. It's hard to break a momentum that is already going- but I know I have a strong foundation that keeps me rooted, even if sometimes I get blinded by all the dust that this vortex is raising as it tries to suck me in. I wish I could say it was only me in this quandry. Sadly, I can't. I'm one of 10 people at the session. Two others are not even students here! As I sit here waiting for this session to start, I overhear the president speak about the leadership succssion of the club- she's trying to persuade a first year to become the secretary and she mentions that she 'cornered' someone else to try to talk him into taking up her position as president. Compare this to the landscape of other clubs, where there is usually a highly competitive race to enter club leadership positions...sad indeed.

So I wait for the session to start. I usually make a conscious effort to meet and greet people, even if I am the outsider in a new place. I assign that habit to my years as a youth leader, where it was my responsibility to ensure that the new young people were welcomed into the fold (that's sounds like something out of some spooky spiritual setting- sorry, you know what I mean). But sometimes I wait to see how/ when/ if ppl appr me first- I view it as a measure of the warmth and friendliness of the Church/ org...also the spiritual climate.
One of the non- students infront of me turns around and introduces himself to the person on my left. A while later, he turns and introduces himself to the person on my right. I'm ignored. Hopefully, it's because I'm sitting infront of my laptop and don't really appear too friendly. Hopefully I'm not reading too much into that slight. Hopefully, I don't have a chip on my shoulder.

Time to sign off and listen to our speaker- Corey Cleek, and a Duke MBA, with a great resume, including being the merchandiser manager for DC Talk on their Jesus Freak tour (hence my heading :) ).

Saturday, March 10, 2007

dubai airport

So my trip to India has ended-it was amazing. Can't even begin to describe the look, feel and sound of the place...will give more details later.

In Dubai Int'al Airport right now- have a 14 hour layover! Too expensive to get a visa to enter the city for a mere couple of hours.

With the two other non-American students from my group. Just hanging out and bitching about how unfair the treatment is against people within the same region...well, I'm sympathizing with them, one is from Jordan and the other from Bangladesh...so they aren't all that happy that our American counterparts have free access to Dubai, while they are confined to the airport.

The optimistic viewpoint however, is that we couldn't pick a better airport to be stuck in- Dubai's airport is huge, lots of shopping areas, there is an in-house hotel, fitness center, manicure/pedicure facilites etc...

School starts on Monday- still have to finanlize my classes.

Well back to my crazy friends here!

Monday, March 5, 2007

breaking the cycle of poverty


Today we visited a remote village outside of Hyderabad to see micro finance in action.


Micro finance involves giving small loans to the poor, who can then use it to invest in an entrepreneurial venture. It's a means of channelling funds to these individuals and an attempt to break the cycle of poverty.


We were hosted by SKI Micro finance company, who's business model is very much similar to that of Gramean Bank. Loans are made to individuals to fund various projects- agriculture, trade, services etc. The business model depends heavily on the intense community atmosphere in the villages. Loans are non-collateralized, instead it's almost as if the collateral used in the individuals reputation in the village. Surprisingly, the loss of name seems sufficient to prevent loan defaults in these areas.


It was very eye-opening to see exactly how the system was executed at this grass roots level. Firstly, loans are made primarily to women, who are viewed as the more reliable target market. Each village elects a center leader who oversees membership. Meetings are held once a week, every week. Women gather in a central area, and sit in a semi-circle around on the dirt floor. The money collector is at the front of this semi-circle.


The money collector proceeds to call out the names of women with outstanding amounts due, the respective women proceeds to hand over her money to the collector in the presence and view of her peers.


Loans are also given to new or existing members. However, it is the group of members present who have the power to okay or deny these new loans! The loan collector asks for permission to lend and the membership will collectively deny or accept the request.


Individuals are placed in groups of five. Should one or more members default, it is the responsibility of the remaining members to honor the loan and ensure repayment.


Social accountability and peer pressure seems to be the key in ensuring the success of this system.


In addition to attending the meetings, we had the pleasure of viewing the businesses (small village shop, Buffalo's kept for milk, offspring) and interacting with the villagers and children.


Poverty in this region is not pretty. It's stark and dirty and real. Breaking the cycle of poverty here seems almost a herculean task.


However, by making funds available to these individuals, they have a very tangible means of not only surviving, but breaking the trap of poverty over themselves and family.


Very inspiring to know that alot of the villagers had children who were going to university and such...their ability to earn wealth opened up opportunities to further advance their economic status and elevate their standard of living.


Indian Wedding



Had the pleasure of seeing an Indian wedding today. So beautiful and festive. I loved the way the groom's family danced in front of him as he entered the building on a beautiful, decorated white horse.

There were these men holding kerosene lamps on their heads that were used to fuel about six light bulbs. Very interesting, a bit scary because they were begging for money with these lamps on their heads!

Also notable was that the groom's face was completely covered in beads and pearls...usually it's the bride that is covered. Nice having the tables turned.



buddha

We visited the Buddha statue yesterday. It was placed on the rock of Gibraltar in the waters of the Hussain Sagar. It is the tallest standing monolith of 72 feet, built by over 200 sculptors over a period of two years. What is really interesting is that the Buddhas here are very skinny, directly opposite to the almost obese statues we're accustomed to in the West.

We had a blast! The view is gorgeous, and nothing beats watching the sunset over the waters. The women here wear the most beautiful Indian wear. I'm so fascinated by it.

Yesterday was the celebration of Holi. It's an Indian festival celebrating the start of the Indian New Year. Basically, you roam the streets throwing dyed power on others. Very colorful and festive. Most people were still dyed red from the day's festivities- very interesting against the colorful saries and shalwars.

Well, it's after 1 pm here - gotta run!
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Sunday, March 4, 2007

More pics at Golconda Fort





The view is amazing! It was worth climbing those 300 steps to see this!





The entrance to Golconda Fort.

Golconda Forte, India

Visited Golconda Fort, India today. Huge! You have to climb about 700 steps to cover the ruins (going up plus coming back down). The ruins are amazing, the view is otherworldly.

I can't help but try to imagine living in that time and civilization. (My overactive imagination was the only thing that kept me interested during history classes in high school.) Walking up and down those steps, threading the same path that kings and nobles, peasants and servers, would have followed hundreds of years ago. It blows the mind.

The whole castle took 62 years to complete! That's a lifetime. I can believe it after seeing the amazing craftsmanship and the overall vastness of the castle and surroundings.

As for the actual hike, it was hot and dusty. I'm wearing a scarf in this picture for very practical purposes. It does a whole lot to keep the sun off your skin and the dust out of your eyes. It also prevents your hair from getting tangled. I totally get the origin of the hijab (Muslim religious wear) now!

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Taking the lid off...

Mind blowing, phenomenal, nothing like I’ve ever seen or imagined- in less than my 10 hours here, I’ve had more first time experiences than I’ve probably had in the last 10 months. In my 40 minutes walking around shopping from saris, I’ve had more eye-popping, jaw dropping, breath gasping experiences than I’ve probably ever experienced in any single compact, continuous moment.

Blow my mind….

1. Motorized rickshaws.
One of India’s prominent means of transportation (imagine a bunch of yellow toy cars crazily zigzagging around, with no consideration to traffic lights, other vehicles and other pedestrians). I remember being most shocked to realize that they actually have breaks and will actually stop for you if you are in the middle of the road while attempting to cross it.
Our toy car supposedly holds three passengers, but Bill insists that he saw at least 10 people crammed into one!


My foray into the unknown:
Bana and I decided to be adventurous and take a motorized rickshaw in our quest for Indian wear…wow. We had to hang unto our seat for dear life, in our pathetic attempt not to fly outside, as our driver did some driving feats that are understandably outlawed in the west. We survived to tell the tale though (note to self: find out about the road accident and fatality rate here).


2. People’s apparent fearlessness in crossing the street.
Okay, so this doesn’t sound like much, I mean it’s a narrow, two-lane, two-way street. But imagine having rush hour traffic from the I-64 highway crammed onto these narrow, two-lane, two-way streets…then picture 5 clueless foreigners trying to navigate this traffic flow…you should fearing for our lives and limbs at this time!
In attempting to cross the street I’ve had my life flash before me at least 3 times, I think I’ve even seen the fabled light at the end of the tunnel (of course that could be several on coming headlights all blurred into one).


3. Bare feet school kids.
Three girls in their matching blue school uniforms with white cotton shirts walk in front of me, happily holding hands, smiling gaily, skipping along the pitch road. They are about 9 – 10 years old. The two on the end wear socks and shoes, the one in the middle wears bare feat, caked with dust and calluses. They skip along the road – to them nothing is out of the ordinary. They eventually cross the street, easily navigating the chaotic roads that leave my group of five - supposedly adult, experienced MBAs - extremely intimidated.


4. I’m not Indian
When you see me, you’d generally assume I’m Indian. It won’t be a bad assumption- I’m brown skinned with black hair, all my ancestors except one Spanish grand-mother hails from the shores of India.

I’ve grown up in Trinidad and Tobago, a melting pot of different ethnic races, cultures and lifestyles. I’ve grown up in the midst of countless Indian temples and Muslim mosques, been to various religious ceremonies and festivals, eaten our version of Indian foods and had members of both sides of my family expound on the characteristics of Hinduism (on my mom’s side) and Islam (on my dad’s side).

But I despite this outward similarities, I think I’m more foreign than some of my Anglo-Saxon counterparts. Who cares though? This is my personal journey, my process of self discovery. I haven’t even begun to unravel the significance of this realization to me yet, except to note that I do acknowledge that some profound shift seems imminent.

But, I guess for everyone else, I want to stress the huge gap between the cultures that I’ve noted. It is true that globalization has taken hold with the effect of making the world smaller. It is also true that American culture plays a dominant effect on this globalized community. I know this, yet I was so unprepared for the huge gap between the world I know and the world I see in Hyderabad. As I stepped out of the airport, on my way to the hotel, in my hunt for Indian clothing, I was amazed by the distinctly unique feel of the place. I stress again, this has been an experience that I have not been able to find anywhere else, and that would be almost impossible to imitate outside of India. This fact will definitely warrant huge consideration as we proceed in suggesting alternatives for reaching the people at the bottom of the pyramid in India.

Well, off to day two- wish me luck in my adventures!